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Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”

(Philippians 4:6-7)

It’s hard sometimes. To not be anxious. To not be worried or stressed about events in life. General pressures, work situations, mistakes, unexpected occurrences, can all have us anxious. And who hasn’t felt anxious? Who hasn’t been worried, apprehensive, fearful, uneasy, perturbed, disquieted, troubled, agitated, tense, stressed, overwrought…. over something in life?

But here is Paul, telling us not to be anxious ever! He doesn’t ignore the fact that we may have cause to be worried. Instead he offers us a solution, by taking the situation to God, we can trade our anxiety for His peace. Our worry for His rest. God’s peace means tranquillity, calm, freedom from internal strife. You’re still in the storm but God’s peace prevails in your heart and mind. In essence, we can pray and not worry as we give our concerns to the Lord.

“Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.’ (1 Peter 5:7)


Daylight Saving ended on the weekend. That blissful time when you get to put your clock back an hour. That day when everyone is asked if you enjoyed your “extra” hour. Did you use it for sleep, for a slower start to the morning, a more leisurely lunch? (Of course those with babies don’t seem to qualify for the “extra” hour. The wake up call happened at the same time as normal (well earlier actually)!) It’s a treat that “extra” time, a bonus. But really at the end of the day there is no added time. That bonus hour gets paid back later down the year.

For a day though, we get to indulge in our “extra” hour. Time you see is such a precious, limited commodity, so the extra hour seems indulgent, a gift!

Life is a precious commodity. Something not to be frittered or wasted away. And the question is, as Mary Oliver in her poem, The Summer Day, so puts it….

“Tell me, what is it  you plan to do. With your one wild and precious life?” 

We were born by God’s purpose and for His purpose. Understanding what we are to do with our lives starts with God. It is in Him that we find our purpose, significance and our destiny.

“For everything, absolutely everything, above and below, visible and invisible,…everything got started in Him and finds its purpose in Him.” (Colossians 1:16 Msg)

“It’s in Christ that we find out who we are and what we are living for: Long before we first heard of Christ and got our hopes up, He has His eye on us, had designs on us for glorious living, part of the overall purpose He is working out in everything and everyone.” (Ephesians 1:11 Msg)

Today. 21st March 2017. World Down Syndrome Day.

A year ago I think I barely knew that this day existed. I can vaguely remember seeing sweet smiling faces across my television screen. But they weren’t one of my boys. It wasn’t part of my world. Then a mere few weeks later, having just given birth, the words Down Syndrome were spoken about my little baby, the one I had yet to even hold in my arms. As those words swirled around me it felt like my heart broke into a million tiny little pieces.

Since that moment though, it has been a year of discovery. Of learning that there is nothing to fear and that love indeed drives out fear. That there is more hope than despair. More to celebrate than to mourn,  more moments to savour than to regret. More joy than sadness.

Thank you to Oscar’s brothers – your sheer joy and excitement over your new baby brother helped my heart begin to be pieced back together. Now, each and every day I get to see your unconditional love for him demonstrated by hugs and yes sometimes over exuberant affection.

To the thousands of families and people with Down Syndrome who have gone before, thank you! You have made our road so much easier. The battles you have won and paths you have forged have become our inheritance. So much of the care we receive today is because of you. You are our inspiration!

To Oscar. My brave and joyful one. You have certainly brought the x factor to our lives. Your gorgeous personality makes an impact on everyone you meet. Your chuckles fill our home. We treasure the love you bring. You know no limits. You are my little warrior.

Our lives are richer, fuller and blessed with you in our lives.

#nothingdownaboutit #worlddownsyndromeday2017 #downsyndrome


“And I will give you treasures hidden in the darkness – secret riches.” (Isaiah 45:3)

Grief visited this week. It threw shadows across my path as family and friends grieved over the loss of loved ones. People were left with sadness, tears in their eyes and empty spaces in their homes. There really were no words to say.

When hard times come, when the darkness has crept into our day, we can know that God is there with us, close. For He is close to the broken hearted. He knows our pain, our loss. He hears our whispers of fear and hurt and He catches every tear that we shed.

In during these times, we will discover treasures in the darkness. Treasures of God’s grace as we find the  strength to get through. Treasures of friends gathering to show their love and care. Treasures of prayers and an awareness of God calling people to pray. Treasures of a deeper revelation of God’s love for us.

We find the laughter and the light grows stronger and brighter again.

The darker the night,
The brighter the day,
The fiercer the fight,
The stronger the faith,
So I place my hope in You

(Kristene Mueller – Redemption)



Enroute out of Auckland on the weekend, a traffic sign caught my eye. “Heavy Traffic? Make breathing space”. A handy hint to drivers to make sure that they keep space between themselves and the car in front. A safety precaution.

It struck me that this was a good life lesson. Busy? A lot on? Make breathing space! Ensure that during busy seasons there is still room for rest. There is margin to breathe.

As the year ramps up and holidays come to a close, it’s a good time to look across our week and check that we are including breathing space across our days and weeks.

“Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.” (Mark 6:31)


Some days you just feel weary. Weary from being brave the moment you step out your door. Weary from weathering the storms of life. And you reach the end of the day and you feel spent. That hard phone call that added more load to your back with the future it seemingly painted. That unexpected hurt that made your heart heavy.

You pour that cup of cold tea away because the day never let you have it. And you feel like a knitted top that’s had a pull in it begin to unravel and fray and you can’t seem to stop it.

And then you read something that speaks straight to your heart, and you feel your soul sigh with relief as you’re reminded of God’s grace and hope…

“Feels like there’s a million things coming at you as you look into the week ahead, but really there is always only one thing: Just. Stay. Calm.

“The Lord Himself will fight for you. Just stay calm” Ex14:14

 Let the Spirit in dwell, before stepping into the hour, day, week. This is the way calm comes. For God will do the battle for you. You just do the breathing in Him. Jesus didn’t just calm one storm—He can calm all our storms. And He comes as a sign to us, a sign of the cross, a sign God’s reaching for us, believing in us, in love, in redemption, in making all things new, in making us enough because He is. 

And He comes like light through rain coming down. ” (Ann Voskamp)

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”(Matthew 11:28-30 MSG)

And maybe that pull in the knitted top can be fixed and doesn’t need to unravel any further.

Yesterday – a walk down memory lane. A rare opportunity to visit an old family home, the old family church. To see the pew that we would always sit in, the church hall where we went to Sunday School. To the see the house – my old bedroom, the back garden. Memories flooding back, of laughter and fun, good times.

As we walk forward into this New Year with resolutions and plans, hope and dreams, it is sometimes useful to cast our eyes over the years past. Not in a yearning for the good days gone or in grief over the bad, but in a realisation of the times when God’s hand upon our lives is visible. When you realise that God had prepared you for what you were to face with Scriptures or prophetic words, with the people that He placed around you. When you are reminded of the prayers answered, of the breakthroughs received.

Looking back and seeing the hand of God on our lives gives encouragement and strength for today and hope for the future. It’s a reminder that even when at the time we don’t notice, God is always working on our behalf, for our benefit, for our good.

“I will remember the deeds of the LORD; yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago.”         (Psalm 77:11)


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